Lady Gaga - Til It Happens To You (Official Music Video)


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    A portion of proceeds from the sale of the song will be donated to organizations helping survivors of sexual assault.

    “Til It Happens To You” available for download now:
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    “Til It Happens To You” written by Diane Warren and Lady Gaga; performed by Lady Gaga, from the film THE HUNTING GROUND, available now:

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    1. GLM 5983

      Lady Gaga. Al my pshykal help is stopt. nou i have big problems. my ptsd my depresion and my suwicidality is getting more stronger nouw. rape of me when i whas 6 is killing me. nou i dond have a medical i realy am verry bad. help help

    2. Melissa Wells

      This needs a louder voice!!!

    3. Nkem Okorie

      "why didn't you report it” - Confused. I wasn’t sure what happened to me would be considered assault since he was my boyfriend

    4. TheJeik WTF

      sechhhhhhhh se me ha caido un idolo

    5. Donald Cribbs

      Thank you for this song, Lady Gaga. When I wrote my survivor story, The Packing House, I went back over the climax of the story and played this song on repeat until I got all the way through the hardest parts. The song became the tone, the underscore. It made me feel strong in the space where I felt the weakest. As it turns out I needed your strength to face those hard parts and to write them as true as I could. Thnk you.

    6. Josh Howie

      I was 11 *Five Years Later* “Why didn’t you report it?” Cause I thought my suicide attempts would've worked so I didn't have to. *Parents reject talking about it* Not sure how to keep living while I recieve critizim, bullying, emotional abuse and have years of trauma on my back.

    7. Rebecca Dixon

      The most important song I've ever listened to

    8. Music Lover

      Love and respect to Lady GaGa from Bangladesh. Salute mam

    9. kvrr

      this hit hard

    10. Sane 286

      I feel so sad that I couldn't do anything that time and let that monster get away with it because I was helpless

    11. Leonie

      Every Time i watch this Video my eyes are filled with tears. 🥺

    12. Vanessa DeSorbo

      There's something wrong with our society when we blame the victim for a Rapists actions. I dont want my future kids, i I ever have any, to grow up im this world.

    13. Vanessa DeSorbo

      The only positive of being raped is that I want to have a career or even just volunteer with other survivors, help them or just listen. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy.

    14. JacinasTV

      This hits to close to home 🖤

    15. nicole natale

      no one belived me because “he was your boyfriend” he was my fucking abuser and i couldn’t get away from him for years

    16. peepeepoopoo

      Came for Devon ane cried at the replies

    17. Lil_Sunshine

      at the age of 13 i made a friend who said she was 14 i was happy until she asked to date me..i agreed but i felt was fine for months until she left i felt empty...worthless...i wanted her back even though she treated me horribly...i found out i was mentally abused. when i was 14 i was lonely so i decided to make new friends but bad things happened and i wanted it to stop...i found out i was groomed by multiple people.... i hate myself now so much...all i want is to forget the memories of what happened but i know ill never forget it. dont do this to people it can ruin them so badly they wont go outside. im still 14 and the last time i was groomed was two months ago. i no longer go onto the internet i loved so much and i no longer make any friends, i dont go to school or outside. ive been trying to get help for almost a year and not one therapist has helped. im trying my best to recover but i still feel horrible...

    18. Mi Ta

      To anybody who knows this feeling I’m so sorry and I know how you feel and you’re not alone

    19. Chantal McKenna

      I was raped a few weeks ago,,, I’ve never told anyone and it’s literally killing me everyday ... I mentally can’t cope anymore :-(

      1. Lily Tóthová

        @Chantal McKenna ❤️❤️❤️❤️

      2. Chantal McKenna

        @Lily Tóthová thank you for listening to my story.... I’m in tears now lol thank you for your kinds words too ❤️❤️❤️❤️

      3. Lily Tóthová

        @Chantal McKenna I'm so, so sorry. This should never have happened to you. Remember it wasn't your fault. No matter how you dressed, how much you drank, where you were, it wasn't your fault. Proud of you for sharing this. Try telling someone you trust. No one should be left alone with their trauma. Sending you a lot of love ❤️

      4. Chantal McKenna

        I don’t even know why I wrote this...just to be seen maybe

    20. Ludmilla Banks

      I escorted my son today to talk to detectives about being sexually assaulted 7 years ago. I'm proud of him. Please pray for him as well, he's hurting and processing everything all over again now, and I can't take away that hurt.

    21. Anonim

      Thank you gaga for so much support to people who needs it, you are incredible celebrity❤

    22. Luyando Muna

      'How could you know' 💔

    23. MissNickyPuppy

      this has to be one of the most emotional songs ever written and sung.

    24. jake monster


    25. Brittnee Billiot

      Happened when I was 16. I never reported it. I never spoke of it till several years into my marriage. He’s the only one that knows.

    26. Ouga Gongo

      Ah Mesut. Wie ist uns denn?

    27. laurenelizabethsmiles

      I hate I got drunk that night I hate I still think it's my fault but most of all I hate that I still haven't fully told anyone what happened to me and prob never will.

      1. Vanessa DeSorbo

        Same. I feel like people will blame me

      2. laurenelizabethsmiles

        @Lily Tóthová Thanks for saying that idk if I'm ready to talk about it but if I ever am ill let you know.

      3. Lily Tóthová

        I'm so, so sorry. It wasn't your fault at all - no one had the right to hurt you. No matter how dressed you were, how much you drank, where you were, whether or not you defended yourself it was not your fault. Nor should you be left alone with such a terrible experience. You wrote that you hadn't fully told anyone about it yet. I'm here for you. Do you want to talk privately?

    28. liv ?

      "She's not guilty" "Women can't rape women" "You are lesbian, so why does it matter anyways" "She said you consented" "You are both minors so nothing will happen to her" She raped me. She was my best friend. I am afraid now of not only my sexuality, but every other person. How can I consent if I was asleep? Please for the love of god turn back time and make this pain stop. I can't handle it anymore.

      1. AYLIN KOHAN

        @liv ? I want you to know it wasn’t your fault. That you’re worth so many good things and that I believe in you

      2. liv ?

        @AYLIN KOHAN but, i have to grow from it. i’ll be okay. i hope you stay safe in the world. thank you for listening to me. the world needs more people like you. stay strong love. you matter.

      3. AYLIN KOHAN

        @liv ? I know. I totally understand. They had no right to do that

      4. liv ?

        @AYLIN KOHAN i regret saying anything to police. i really do. because nothing happened except for me feeling more guilty yk? it’s just hard when you trust someone so much and they completely turn on you. she claimed her and her bf wanted a threesome. and that she was questioning her sexuality. and i was her guinea pig. it’s so hard to trust anyone anymore.

      5. AYLIN KOHAN

        @liv ? you can talk to me anytime you need help. People have got to start taking things seriously. These things happen and no one says anything. It’s time for that to stop

    29. sam

      I'm 14 now. I was 6 or 7 maybe when it happened. I don't clearly remember it, I have a very bad memory. I just started acknowledging it as assault a few months ago when the incident suddenly popped up in my head (I didn't have any recollection of it before that). The guy was 16/17. He touched my privates. I have details that I don't wanna/embarrassed to talk about. But, he touched my privates. That's it. But I have started acknowledging that any intimate contact which is non-consensual is assault/harassment and needs to be taken care of. it weirdly doesn't affect me at all, probably because of the fact that I barely remember it. maybe when I meet him again, it could trigger my emotions. my story isn't as worse as the ones I'm reading here but I'm sure I'm never gonna talk about it to anyone. so, I wanted to talk about it here.

      1. sam

        @izzy that was the most compliments I have gotten from one person. thank you so much for your words. I can't express how much they mean to me. I love you too ❤️

      2. izzy

        hii! i just wanted to say that i am so proud of you for opening up on here! although you don’t remember i just wanted to remind u and say it’s not ur fault. you’re beautiful inside and out and you’re so brave and strong. i wish you the best and i will pray for you. i hope you have a steady healing process. i know i don’t know you but i love you:)

      3. sam

        @Lily Tóthová i didn't expect any sort of attention to my comment. thank you so much. I'm so grateful that people like you exist. you're very sweet 😭❤️

      4. Lily Tóthová

        I'm sorry about what happened to you. I understand that it is difficult for you to talk about it. It's not your duty and you shouldn't feel like you have to talk about it, even if you don't want to, but it wasn't your fault, and if you tell anyone about it, you'll be relieved. Sending you a lot of love ❤️

    30. Bagas Dwi Septyan

      WTF! That's Rodrick Heffley. the drummer from Loded Diper. What is he doing?!

    31. ephemeral rose

      this song hits different after

    32. BIDEN 2020

      "Till It Happens To You" (from "The Hunting Ground" soundtrack) You tell me it gets better, it gets better in time You say I'll pull myself together, pull it together, you'll be fine Tell me, what the hell do you know? What do you know? Tell me how the hell could you know? How could you know? Till it happens to you, you don't know how it feels, how it feels Till it happens to you, you won't know, it won't be real No, it won't be real, won't know how it feels You tell me hold your head up, hold your head up and be strong 'Cause when you fall you gotta get up, you gotta get up and move on Tell me how the hell could you talk, how could you talk? 'Cause until you walk where I walk, this is no joke Till it happens to you, you don't know how it feels, how it feels Till it happens to you, you won't know, it won't be real (how could you know?) No it won't be real (how could you know?) Won't know how I feel Till your world burns and crashes Till you're at the end, the end of your rope Till you're standing in my shoes I don't wanna hear a thing from you, from you, from you 'Cause you don't know Till it happens to you, you don't know how I feel, how I feel How I feel Till it happens to you, you won't know, it won't be real (how could you know?) No, it won't be real (how could you know?) Won't know how it feels Till it happens to you Happens to you Happens to you Happens to you Happens to you Happens to you (how could you know?) Till it happens to you You won't know how I feel

    33. Keely Emer

      "Why did you let it happen?" Because he was my boyfriend and he would sexually abuse me but would guilt trip and gaslight me if I ever said no. Because he was my fiance and he got both my best friend and I drunk. One of the three times, my best friend was so drunk she didn't remember a thing. But I gained the strength to leave. I went to the police. Even now they're still investigating. I wasn't the first and I won't be the last.

    34. Gabe Itch

      Oh my god this comment section is awful

    35. Laura Batista

      I’m crying a lot

    36. Shadow Hawk

      "Why didn't you report it" I tried to...You got mad at me... Because you're a shitty person I will never consider a father for what you put me through. But this drew the line. You got mad I took too long in the bathroom and as I tried to explain myself you said I was acting retarded and beat me for it. You refused to hear me out and listen to me, you never do. I tried to tell you. You refused to listen. You made me feel like it was no big deal and doesn't happen to men... I kept it in for 5 years...That sick fuck pushed me into the outside of the stall and threatened to kick my teeth and choke me out if I didn't do what he wanted me to do

      1. Lily Tóthová

        I believe you. I'm so sorry for you. Sending you a big hug and a lot of love ❤️

    37. shamso mohamed

      This happend to my own sister... The girl who I GREW UP WITH to a guy she won't tell me did it. :(

    38. amymchasi

      To everyone reading this who has a story of their own relating to this... I'm sending you a hug.💗

    39. jerramy

      1 in 5? That's horrific!

    40. Valeria The 2nd

      5 years old, he was 14, told me he was my friend and it was game


      Thank you for always standing up for us little girls, so we can get bigger, every day, in every way. I love you, sissybear.

    42. Libny artist Valenzuela

      Mom u asked why I didn’t wanted to go out w crop tops mini jeans etc outside,cause there’s a lot of boys like that...

    43. Ashley Renfrow

      “Why didn’t you report it?” Because he was my father and I wanted him to just love me...

      1. Lily Tóthová

        I believe you. I'm so sorry for what happened to you. No one should go through something like that. You're not alone. Stay strong ❤️

    44. CrazyDino._.

      i... i am in tears... it only happened a month ago and i had to leave campus to come home... 2020 and its still happening... Im only 18 and my first semester of college ruined and they didnt do a damn thing...

    45. No other Like my own skin

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    46. Mai Z

      "Why don't you report it" He's my husband and nobody believes me

      1. Mai Z

        @izzy thank you

      2. izzy

        i believe you! i am so sorry this happened to you but i want you to know it is not your fault. you deserve better and i hope you find a way to get out of your situation! i’ll pray for you and i’m sending love and prayers your way!

    47. Lilly Ramadanova

      why didn't you report it? he's my husband and a powerful lawyer

    48. Tracy Goodwin

      It destroys part of your soul.

    49. Reptile Harley

      "why didn't you report it" because it was a date and he didn't give me chance to say no. Even though I said early that same evening and the day before I didn't want to do that. Edit: my friend just said if I didn't say no at the time or tried to push him off then I have no case. I had no chance to say no and I didn't know what to do.

      1. izzy

        i believe you! you’re friend should not be trying to put the blame on you, it is never your fault. your date knew your boundaries and still crossed them. i am so sorry this happened but i want you to know that you are strong! i love you :)

    50. Naomi Folkerts

      Why didn't you report it? Because the first time I was a minor and my friends laughed at my story, the second time my boyfriend blamed me and accused me of cheating, and the third time my sister said "rape is a bold accusation". Because when one friend reported she went through trial for 2 years and despite overwhelming evidence the guy still got off easy, and when my other friend reported the SHERIFF told her nobody would believe her.

    51. Ardelin De Jesus

      The sad part is that there is more sexual assault from family members /friends that from unknown people and the family doesn't want to see it. An inappropriate kiss/ touch/word can destroy a person life even worse when no body care.

    52. Terence Davis

      Very moving song and comments.

    53. Liwong Ganjen 在整個人類歷史上,強者,富人和具有狡猾特質的人捕食部落,氏族,城鎮,城市和鄉村中的弱者,無`'守和貧窮成員。然而,人類的生存意願迫使那些被拒絕,被剝奪或摧毀的基本需求的人們找到了一種生活方式,並繼續將其DNA融入不斷發展的人類社會。 說到食物,不要以為那些被拒絕的人只吃垃圾。相反,他們學會了在被忽視的肉類和蔬菜中尋找營養。他們學會了清潔,切塊,調味和慢燉慢燉的野菜和肉類,在食品市場上被忽略的部分家用蔬菜和肉類,並且學會了使用芳香的木煙(如山核桃,山核桃和豆科灌木)來調味食物煮的時候ww

    54. Loli Baez


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    56. Diego de Souza Nunes


    57. Morgan Wright

      i was 12 years old on the bus riding back home from my first day of seventh grade. two of my close guy friends from last school year pulled to the back of the bus and slammed me on the bus seat. they ran there hands up my shirt and down my pants. i was too scared to move or do anything. they both got off at a stop earlier than me and the next day they acted like nothing ever happened. like, i didn't run home crying. or that for the rest of the school year i sat in the seat behind the bus driver because i was terrified of them.

      1. zombie slayer 22

        Did it keep happening over and over?

    58. EpiCheetah 24

      Why didn't you tell anyone? 1. I was embarrassed. 2. I was scared 3. Nobody cared 4. They would blame me

    59. Joseph kyambadde

      Love you Gaga. You inspire everyday

    60. broken bish

      "why didn't you report it?" Because it was my older sister and her friends, and they threatened to hurt me, and since I was only 10, I fully believed them and kinda still do. Everyday I can't stop thinking about it, I just want to feel clean and not feel gross anymore. Everyday I think about what would've happened to me if I told someone.

      1. broken bish

        @izzy tysm ❤️😭 you're too kind

      2. izzy

        i just want to say i am so proud of you for opening up on here and telling your story! i believe you 100% and i am truly sorry you had to experience this. it is not your fault in any way and i’m sending love and prayers your way!

      3. Lily Tóthová

        @broken bish it is normal to be scared. You are welcome :) wish you good luck.

      4. broken bish

        @Lily Tóthová Thank you, I really appreciate it. I will try telling someone since I have become brave over the past 5 years, I'm scared but I'll try, thank you 💞

      5. Lily Tóthová

        I believe you. I can't imagine what you've been through. I'm so sorry for what happened to you. Just remember it wasn't your fault and you're not alone. Try telling someone about it. I know it's very difficult, but it wasn't your fault, and telling someone about it will make you very relieved. If you don't feel like telling someone around you yet, you can call the helpline in your country. Sending you a lot of love 💕


      I love you, so much, sister. 💟💖🖤

    62. Syefania Blaj

      “Why didn’t you report?” He was my boyfriend. I was drugged and didn’t remember much. I was 14

    63. Anice

      "Why don't you report it?" because it is humiliating I will never talk about it again, should I die suffocated by guilt, as if it were not already everyday life

    64. Aessa Nike

      I just want someone to believe me.

      1. izzy

        i believe you!

      2. Aessa Nike

        @Lily Tóthová Thanks

      3. Lily Tóthová

        I believe you ❤️

    65. Aessa Nike

      I told my boyfriend about my sexual abuse....he didn't respond well. To him, I cheated. I guess he will never know how it feels.

    66. holli the rat

      "why didn't you report it" Fat girls don't get raped...

    67. plolololololoo

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    68. Jenni Nocelotl

      "Why didnt you report it?" He was my dad... He and she were my cousins I didnt want to cause Because you and dad argued alot and if i spoke about it would be my fault that i ruined our family

      1. Lily Tóthová

        @Jenni Nocelotl it will be better, I promise ❤️

      2. Jenni Nocelotl

        @Lily Tóthová thank you.. Although i kinda want to give up..

      3. Lily Tóthová

        I'm sorry about what happened to you. I can't imagine what you went through. It's not your fault. You're so strong. Sending you a lot of love ❤️

    69. M D

      is the girl standing at the back of the hallway at the end supposed to represent Gaga or is it like a ghost? 💀

    70. Felipe Braga

      Todas as vezes que você me dizia que eu deveria apanhar calado pois eu merecia apanhar, todas as vezes que você tão novo me surrava no chão vendo minhas forças não resistirem a dor de ver meu próprio amor batendo em mim, me mordendo, rasgando todos meus sentimentos no chão entre suor, lágrimas, sangue e pavor. Você não sabe quanto sofri, quanto isso impactou no meu psicológico, quanta dor senti, como sofri. Mas quando eu falei que não aceitaria mais ser agredido e nem muito menos traído, ali coloquei um ponto final, por mim, por meu amor próprio, pela minha vida e pela minha saúde e, anos depois casei com um homem de verdade que cuida de mim, que percebe minhas feridas - na alma - mas que cuida de cada uma com calma, carinho e amor. Sejam fortes, se posicionem e acabem com a merda do sofrimento que alguém fizer com vocês. Te amo mamãe Gaga, sou seu little Monster ❤️

    71. Quiana Urias

      “Why did you wait over 10 years to tell me?” Because I was afraid you’d abandon me and choose the father of your kids side over what he did to me and my side of the story.. Eats me alive every single day knowing he’s still out there in public 😭

    72. Damary Moreno

      Growing up my parents led to believe that they were my heroes, but the sad part is I believed that. When I told them I was touched by someone they know, SOMEONE I THOUGHT I COULD TRUST, they told me not to tell anyone and that I was overreacting. It's been about 3 months and I still cry about it. They told me they would protect me, but when it came down to it they were more worried about saving his reputation. I'll never see any of them the same way again.

    73. Alayna Warren

      my dad still doesn’t believe me.

      1. Alayna Warren

        @Lily Tóthová 🥺❤️

      2. Lily Tóthová

        I believe you ❤️ I'm so sorry for what happened.

    74. JYJnKumi

      "Why would anyone want to touch you?" I was 9. It had been going on since I was 5. "Look how you dress. What'd you expect?" I was 23 and was almost raped by a coworker. I was dressed in baggy pants and a hoodie. He still has his job.

    75. Official BAM

      “Get over it” You won’t know I feel

    76. Hailey Gerry

      I’m so happy this is a song love it it helps me a lot

    77. AERIE

      So this is what Bill Burr thinks is a joke? Thanks SNL. There is nothing funny about the issues women have been fighting in recent times.

    78. Sophia Silva

      So sad to read all these comments about rapes and abuse 😭

    79. Emily Malik

      Aw f*ck. I did not expect to get triggered from this video, I’ve only ever listened to the audio.

    80. Honey No

      “why didn’t you tell me?” I thought he was tickling me at first, I was too young to understand.

    81. Harley Quinn

      "I'm sorry your son is not normal like most boys" my teacher told my mother. Forgive me if I am not "normal" like other boys, it's just that I don't know what normal means

      1. Harley Quinn

        @Sophia Silva aw, thank you for the support

      2. Sophia Silva

        You were born this way ❤

    82. gutterpunk DIYS

      I was shamed and extorted for reporting my assualt. I was 14 he was 19

    83. Alia Khraisha

      Omg 5 years later and I still cry every time I listen to this song

    84. XVX BB


    85. Tamara Merritt

      This made my skin crawl

    86. oH MaRìA-

      "All he did was touch you... It was wrong of him but it wasn't tht bad right? It could've been worse" I was a kid He didnt 'just' do anything. Don't blame me for not trusting anyone ever again lol.

      1. Lily Tóthová

        It was really bad. No one had the right to hurt you. I'm so sorry. I wish you good luck and strength.

    87. boy fdl

      Nunca antes me había sentido tan identificado!... más allá de un gran talento, toda una historia de atrás...

    88. Kelli Wallace

      maby i tried to tell but my mom said if i did then id look like a fool an so nothing was done

    89. GLM 5983

      Yes,,,,, i was the men ho was raped when i was 6 After 7,5 years of treatment i wil go to my final treatment in the middel of the Netherlands by Psytrec in the Bilthoven. Fore 8 days. I trust them. I hope to finaly solve my rape and my Police PTSD

      1. GLM 5983

        @Lily Tóthová Thank you a lot

      2. Lily Tóthová

        Wish you good luck and sending you a lot of love ❤️

    90. _Wolkentanzer _

      I didn't know this song existed...

    91. Darko Markovic

      Beautiful song on such delicate subject. You can feel anger and pain in her voice.

    92. Calum Doyle

      Why couldn’t I do anything? Because two different times two people touched me. The police wouldn’t do anything for that. I escaped before it went farther. It was also two people me and my mom trusted.

    93. toxicwaste *

      You say I'm a liar till it happens to you. We were just friends. I was 13. Why is it my fault? He's way older why isn't he held responsible. Why don't you care until it happens to you? Why do you believe him when he has previous accusations? Why is it my fault when I said no.

      1. Lily Tóthová

        @toxicwaste * I am so, so sorry. You're welcome. Sending you a lot of love ❤️

      2. toxicwaste *

        @Lily Tóthová thank you so much. I need this. Even my mom doesn't care

      3. Lily Tóthová

        I believe you sweetie. And it's not your fault. No matter what you were wearing, whether you were smiling or flirting, where you were, it's not your fault. Stay strong ❤️

    94. CuteCutie Cucca

      you were asking for it i was 12 in my bedroom asleep.

    95. Welcome Paradise

      Ella no sólo habla aquí de la violación...también habla sobre la fibromialgia.

    96. Badjao David

      what is the name of the lesbian girl?

    97. kayla

      can someone please give me a roderick time stamp..

    98. Mary Donley

      It’s been a year 5 months and 11 days since it happened to me and people still don’t believe me

      1. Lily Tóthová

        I believe you. Sending you a lot of love ❤️

    99. Егор Журилко

      LOVE YOU GAGA! Icon!

    100. Mishina Iivokuwau

      Everything will be fine. Just talk about it more and it'll feel better. My head: I wish it was like that but I'm at war in my head at home and at school and abuse happens at both home and school. Someone help me heal. Someone help all the teens that suffered the same thing I have with a schizophrenic mother at home. Someone help "us" amen.